Bullying adalah tindakan menakut-na

Bullying adalah tindakan menakut-nakuti dan mengancam orang lain. Anak-anak yang menjadi pelakunya biasanya memilih anak yang lebih lemah atau lebih "sendirian" sebagai korbannya, dan melakukannya terus menerus. Bullying biasanya dimulai sejak SD dan semakin menjadi-jadi di masa SMP, sementara di masa SMA tidak begitu lazim, tapi tetap ada.
Bentuk-bentuk bullying antara lain:

Kekerasan fisik: pemukulan, atau dorongan
kekerasan emosional: mengolok-olok, atau menulis hal-hal kasar menjurus menghina di media online seperti blog atau sosial media, juga termasuk bullying
Kekerasan fisik biasa dilakukan oleh anak laki-laki, sedangkan kekerasan emosional biasa dilakukan oleh anak perempuan.
Jika anda merasa anak anda adalah salah satu pelaku atau korban bullying, segeralah bertindak!

Kenapa harus dihentikan?

Bullying adalah masalah yang amat serius bagi anak yang terlibat, baik pelaku ataupun korban. Anak yang menjadi korban dapat mengalami depresi hebat, menganggap diri mereka buruk, bahkan membenci diri mereka sendiri. Mereka juga mungkin akan ketakutan dan tidak lagi bersemangat untuk bersekolah. Fatalnya, terkadang mereka memilih cara-cara ekstrim yang dapat berakhir tragis sebagai jalan keluar. Misalnya mereka dapat saja membawa senjata, menggunakan kekerasan untuk balas dendam, atau mungkin membahayakan nyawa mereka sendiri.
Sementara bagi para pelakunya cenderung terlibat hal-hal negatif seperti obat-obatan, minuman keras, bahkan tindakan-tindakan brutal melawan hukum lainnya.

Seperti apa penanganan terhadap pelaku?


Biasanya para pelaku bullying memiliki fisik yang kuat, mereka melakukannya (bullying) karena mereka menyukai perasaan sebagai anak yang kuat diantara anak seusianya. Mereka tidak berfikir sebelum melakukan perbuatannya, dan mereka tidak suka mengikuti peraturan, mereka tidak pernah belajar untuk memahami perasaan orang lain.
Anak-anak seperti ini membutuhkan konseling, mereka harus mengetahui kenapa mereka melakukan ini dan itu, dan apa akibatnya. Ini juga akan melatih mereka untuk dapat berinteraksi dengan cara-cara yang lebih positif. Konseling di keluarga inti (Family Counseling) sangat dianjurkan.

Hasil (Inggris) 1:

Bullying is the Act of scaring and threatening others. Children who become perpetrators usually choose the weaker children or more "alone" as their victims, and do so continuously. Bullying usually starts as early as ELEMENTARY SCHOOL and the more rampant in the JUNIOR HIGH SCHOOL, while in the HIGH SCHOOL are not so common, but it still exists.Forms of bullying include:Physical violence: beating, or encouragementemotional abuse: making fun of, or write things rough leading to insult in online media like blogs or social media, also including bullyingThe usual physical violence committed by boys, while the usual emotional violence done by girls.If you feel your child is one of the perpetrators or the victims of bullying, make haste to act!Why should be stopped?Bullying is a very serious problem for the children involved, either the offender or the victim. Children who became victims of the great depression can experience, consider themselves poorly, even hating themselves. They may also fear and are no longer eager to attend school. Fatalnya, sometimes they choose extreme ways that can end tragically as a way out. For example they may just carries a weapon, use of violence for revenge, or might endanger the lives of their own.While for the perpetrators tend to be involved negative things such as drugs, booze, even brutal acts against the law.What sort of treatment against the perpetrator?Usually the perpetrators of bullying has physically strong, they do it (bullying) because they like the feeling as strong among older children of her age. They did not think before doing what he had done, and they don't like to follow the rules, they never learn to understand other people's feelings.Such children need counselling, they need to know why they did this and that, and what are the consequences. It will also train them to be able to interact in ways that are more positive. Counseling in the nuclear family (Family Counseling) is highly recommended.

Hasil (Inggris) 2:

Bullying is an act to frighten and intimidate others. Children who become perpetrators usually choose children who are weaker or more "alone" as a victim, and do so continuously. Bullying usually starts since elementary school and became increasingly in the junior, while in high school is not so unusual, but still there.
Forms of bullying include: Physical violence: beatings, or encouragement of emotional violence: to make fun of, or write it -things coarse insult leads in online media such as blogs or social media, bullying also includes regular physical violence committed by boys, whereas emotional abuse usually done by girls. If you feel your child is one of the perpetrators or victims of bullying, immediately act! Why be stopped? Bullying is a serious problem for the children involved, either perpetrators or victims. Children who are victims may experience severe depression, consider themselves poor, even hate themselves. They also may be frightened and no longer eager to go to school. Fatal, sometimes they choose extreme ways that can end tragically as a way out. For example, they may be carrying a weapon, use of violence for vengeance, or may endanger the lives of their own. while for the perpetrators tend to engage negative things like drugs, alcohol, even brutal actions against other law. Like what handling against the perpetrators? Usually the bullies physically strong, they do it (bullying) because they like the feeling as strong among children his age. They do not think before doing actions, and they do not like to follow rules, they never learn to understand other people's feelings. Such children need counseling, they need to know why they did this and that, and what the consequences. It will also train them to be able to interact in ways that are more positive. Counseling in the nuclear family (Family Counseling) is highly recommended.