2. Pemborosan WaktuPacaran berarti

2. Pemborosan Waktu
Pacaran berarti banyak waktu yang digunakan untuk berdua. Bagaimana tidak selalu berdua, cinta sudah lengket, rindu menggelora, penyakit malarindu tropi kangen mulai menyerang, obatnya harus ditemukan, harus bersama, kalau tidak maka perasaan tidak tenang, pikiran jadi kalut akhirnya stress berat.

Padahal penggunaan waktu merupakan rahasia sukses. Waktu tersebut dapat digunakan untuk membaca buku. Namun karena otak dipenuhi oleh bayangan pacar maka bukan buku yang dibaca, tetapi surat cinta.

Sebagian orang beranggapan, pacaran pada dasarnya merupakan sarana membuang waktu secara efektif. Karena banyak waktu yang terbuang hanya untuk memenuhi selera perasaan. Setan memang cerdas memperdaya manusia karena hal itu merupakan profesinya.

3. Pergaulan Sosial Terbatas
Sebelum berpacaran, seseorang dapat bergaul secara leluasa dengan siapa saja tanpa ada yang membatasi. Pada waktu itu ia menjadi manusia yang bebas dan merdeka dimana ia bisa menentukan sikap hidupnya sendiri.

Namun, setelah berpacaran, pergaulan sosial seseorang biasanya menjadi terbatas. Orang tersebut menjadi manusia yang tidak bebas dan merdeka. Sebagian sikapnya dipengaruhi oleh sang pacar. Kebebasan yang ia miliki menjadi berkurang. Hubungannya dengan orang lain menjadi renggang. Jika sebelumnya ia bebas dan akrab bersahabat dengan siapa saja maka setelah punya pacar keakraban menjadi terbatas.

Mau kenalan atau berkenalan dengan orang lain harus ada persetujuan dari sang pacar. Mau ikut organisasi harus izin sang pacar. Mau keluar kota ketemu saudara sanak famili harus lapor dulu sama pacar. Pokoknya mau ke mana - mana, mau berteman dengan siapa, aktif di mana, semuanya harus izin sang pacar. Akhirnya pergaulan jadi terbatas.
4. Menjadikan panjang angan-angan.
Orang yang sedang jatuh cinta—pacaran—seringkali teringat dengan orang yang dicintainya itu. Lalu ia memikirkan sesuatu, berandai-andai setiap waktu—tentang apa yang akan dilakukan nanti saat bertemu, tentang apa yang akan diberikan saat itu, tentang kata-kata yang akan diucapkan sebagai bumbu, dan masih banyak lagi.
5. Mengurangi produktivitas
Jika tidak pacaran, seorang siswa tentunya bisa melakukan aktivitas lain yang lebih produktif; misal membuat karya seni, menulis artikel, cerpen, puisi, karya tulis, mengerjakan PR, atau yang lainnya. Namun seringkali produktivitasnya turun lantaran ia berpacaran.
6. Menjadikan hidup boros
orang yang pacaran akan selalu berkorban untuk pacarnya. Bahkan uang yang seharusnya untuk ditabung bisa habis untuk bersenang-senang: membelikan hadiah pacarnya, membeli pulsa, mentraktir, nonton Film, dan yang lainnya.
7. terjadinya kriminalitas
Banyak criminal yang di awali oleh rebutan pacar ataupun cemburu terhadap pacar. Sehingga pacaran dapat menjadi salah satu potensi criminal di lakukan.
2. Melemahkan Iman
Orang yang pacaran cenderung meletakkan rasa cinta kepada kekasihnya di atas rasa cinta kepada Sang Pencipta. Tak perlu mengelak ataupun mengiyakan, sebab pernyataan ini bisa dibuktikan dengan kualitas ibadah seseorang. Jika kualitas ibadah seseorang menurun setelah mengalami jatuh cinta, itu artinya porsi kecintaannya kepada Allah berkurang. Ia jadi jarang ke Masjid, jarang membaca Al Quran, meninggalkan shalat sunnah, bahkan beberapa hafalannya hilang, serta banyak ibadah lain yang terlewatkan.
3. ‘melatih’ kemunafikan
Orang yang berpacaran itu seringkali menipu, berusaha agar pasangannya yakin bahwa ialah yang terbaik. Memang tidak semua.. tapi umumnya begitu. Ia akan menampakkan hal-hal yang baik di depan kekasihnya. Adapun hal-hal yang buruk sebagian besar ia sembunyikan. Sebagian orang ada yang sengaja menunjukkan beberapa keburukannya kepada kekasihnya sekedar untuk meraih simpati, mencari kesamaan, mendapatkan pemakluman, atau sebagai bumbu-bumbu romantisme belaka. Namun tidak jarang orang yang berpacaran mengatakan sesuatu yang sebenarnya bertentangan dengan hati kecilnya.

Hasil (Inggris) 1:

2. Waste of TimeDating means lots of time which is used for both. How does not always both, love is already sticky, missed a tempestuous, diseases malarindu Klezmer trophy began to invade, the cure must be found, should be shared, if not then not feeling calm mind so frantically finally heavy stress.Whereas the use of time is the secret to success. This time can be used to read the book. However, because the brain is filled with shadows girlfriend then instead of books read, but a love letter.Some people think, dating is basically a means of wasting time effectively. Because a lot of time is wasted just to satisfy the appetite of the senses. The devil is indeed clever trick humans because it is his profession.3. Social Association LimitedBefore dating, one can mingle freely with anyone without any limit. At that time he became the man that is free and independent, where he was able to determine the attitudes of his own life.However, after dating, social intercourse of a person usually becomes limited. The person is not a human being free and independent. His attitude was partly influenced by the boyfriend. The freedom she had become reduced. Conjunction with other people to become porous. If he was free and intimate friendship with anyone then after have a girlfriend familiarity becomes limited.Want to acquaintances or mingle with others there must be approval from the boyfriend. Want to join the Organization must permit the girlfriend. Want to see you out of town relatives sisters family should report same boyfriend. Anyway want to everywhere, want to make friends with whom, where active, everything must permit the girlfriend. Eventually the Association so limited.4. Make the length of wishful thinking.People who are in love — courtship — is often remembered by people who loved it. Then he thought of something, suppose each time — about what will be done later when met, about what will be given at that time, about the words that will be spoken as a spice, and many more. 5. Reduce productivityIf not going out, a student could certainly do more productive activity; for example, create artwork, writing articles, short stories, poems, paper, work on HOMEWORK, or more. But often his production was down because he was dating.6. Make a living wastespeople who are dating will always sacrifice for her boyfriend. Even the money that's supposed to savings could run out for fun: her boyfriend bought her a gift, buy a pulse, treats, watch movies, and more.7. the occurrence of criminalityMany a criminal at the start by rebutan girlfriend or jealous of a girlfriend. So the dating can be one of the potential criminal in doing.2. The Weakening of faithThe person who is courting tend to put a sense of love to her lover in the above sense of love to the creator. No need to Dodge or mengiyakan, because this statement can be proved by worship of the qualities of the person. If the quality of one's worship declined after a fall in love, it means that the portion of its love of God decreases. She so seldom to the mosque, rarely read Al Quran, sunnah prayers, leaving even some hafalannya missing, as well as many other acts of worship which are missed.3. ' train ' of hypocrisyPeople who are dating it is often deceptive, trying to let her partner is convinced that is the best. Indeed not all ... but generally so. It will appear a good things in front of her lover. As for the bad things he mostly hide. There are some people who purposefully showed some ugliness to her lover just to gain sympathy, look for similarities, get pemakluman, or as sheer romanticism of Marinades. But not infrequently the person dating say something actually contradicts her little heart.

Hasil (Inggris) 2:

2. Wasting Time
Courting means a lot of time spent together. How not always together, love has been sticky, tempestuous longing, nostalgic trophy Malarindu disease began to attack, the cure must be found, should be shared, if not then an uneasy feeling, thought so frantic end to severe stress. Whereas the use of time is the secret of success. The time can be used to read books. But because the brain is filled by the shadow boyfriend then not a book to read, but a love letter. Some people think, courtship is basically a means of wasting time effectively. Because a lot of time is wasted just to meet the tastes of feeling. Satan is intelligent deceive humans because it is a profession. 3. Social interaction Limited Before dating, one can mingle freely with anyone without being limiting. At that time he became a man free and independent attitude where he can determine his own life. However, after dating, social interaction a person usually becomes limited. The person may be people who are not free and independent. Most stance is influenced by her boyfriend. The freedom that he had to be reduced. Relationship with others becomes tenuous. If earlier he was free and familiar friends with anyone who has a girlfriend then after familiarity becomes limited. Want to contact or meet with others must be approved by the boyfriend. Want to join the organization must permit the boyfriend. Want to get out of town to meet relatives relatives should first report the same girlfriend. Anyway where to go - where, want to be friends with whom, which is active in, everything must permit the boyfriend. Eventually the association so limited. 4. Making long wishful thinking. People who are in love-courtship-is often remembered by those who loved it. Then he thought of something, suppose each time about what will be done later when he met, what will be given at the time, about the words that will be spoken as a spice, and much more. 5. Reducing productivity Otherwise courtship, a student must be able to do other activities that are more productive; eg creating artwork, writing articles, short stories, poetry, writing, doing homework, or anything else. But often productivity is down because he was dating. 6. Make extravagant lives of people who courtship will always sacrifice for his girlfriend. Even the money that was supposed to be saved can be spent on fun: buy a gift his girlfriend, buy credits, treat, watch movies, and others. 7. the occurrence of criminality Many criminals are starting to struggle against the jealous boyfriend or girlfriend. So the courtship could become a potential criminal in doing. 2. Faith weaken People courtship tends to put love for his girlfriend over love for the Creator. Needless to dodge or say yes, because this statement can be proved by the quality of worship somebody. If the quality of worship someone declines after experiencing love, the love of God means serving reduced. He so rarely to the mosque, rarely read the Quran, sunnah prayers leaving even some disappear from memory, as well as many other worship miss. 3. 'train' the hypocrisy of people who are dating are often deceiving, trying to make sure that their partner is the best. It's not all .. but generally so. He will reveal things that are good in front of his girlfriend. As for the bad things he largely hidden. Some people have deliberately showing some ugliness to his girlfriend just to gain sympathy, seek common ground, get proclamation, marinades or as a mere romance. But the relationship is not uncommon for people to say something that is contrary to his conscience.