KNOWLEDGE WISDOM TRUE STORY HOME HEALTH BEAUTY PRODUCTS TO EAT KECANTIKANHikmah, Knowledge 20 March 2015 34.473 views Turns Should Look Husband Wife Treats, order Blessing Today, many husbands who demanded his wife to always be able to meet the biological needs. And no less than those who deliver hadith which states that Allah and the prophet will be cursed to the wife who refuses the request of her husband, indeed it is true. But now many husbands who have forgotten or melalaiakan mimic the way the prophet in treating their wives, this is an important point that will be discussed even pertanya wives. Here are the ways in which the prophet in his wife nenperlakukan: 1. Can soothe the feelings of a husband istriBanyak today who do not know how to calm the heart of a wife. Not a few husbands who look directly wife will cry and scold emotion, not calm her to stop crying but instead bully. But the prophet has a gentle way in reassuring her tersebut.Pada one day, he came to Safiyya bint Huyayy. He discovered Shafiyah was crying. Him, he asked, "What makes you cry?" Shafiyah replied, "Hafsah said I kid Jews." He said, "Tell him, my husband Mohammed, father of Aaron, and uncle Moses!" (Read, among others, Muhammad ibn Ahmad al -Qurthubî, Tafsir al-Qurtubi, Cairo: Dar al-Sya'b, cet. II, 1372 H, 16, p. 326.) Look how the Prophet solve problems with simple words but deep meaning. Feel also psychological effects of wife who defended his feelings, of making sense of affection to her husband getting in. Try to imitate the good way to anda.2 wife. Consulted before taking a decision along the glorious istriRasulullah never objected to listen to and take his opinion. This is seen when he asked for the opinion of Umm Salamah in Hudaybiyah.Waktu agreement that he told him to get a haircut and slaughter sacrifices, but they do not want to melakukannya.Melihat response of the companions, King of the Prophet went into the tent of Umm Salamah. Once he told Umm Salamah what he received from friends, Umm Salamah directly argues that cerdas.Ia said: "Come, O Messenger of Allah, then you shave and cut sacrificial animals!" He came out of the tent, shave and cut sacrificial . Seeing this, the companions suddenly rose; they simultaneously shave and cut kurban.3 animals. Patient follow his wife's request that manjaSekarang can be seen many husbands who are impatient and direct emotion when his wife was wanted bermanjaan with husband. Because women will feel loved when when he wants bermanjaan with husband then followed by the suami.Rasulullah Saw. husband is a very exalted position of his wife and thought highly of them, so the Prophet always patiently followed the request of his wife. 'Â`isyah told me about this: A group of people Habasyah entered the mosque and play in it. When the Prophet. said to me, "O Humayrâ`, are you happy to see them?" I replied, "Yes." Then he stood at the door of home.I him. I put my chin on his shoulders and I leaned my face into her cheeks. Among their speech (people Habasyah) at the time, 'Abû al-Qasim (the Prophet) good people.' Then the Prophet said, "Enough." I said, "O Messenger of Allah, do not rush." He stood up again for me. Then he said, "Enough." I said, "Do not be hasty, O Messenger of Allah." Not to see them play that I like, but I want women to know the position of the Prophet for me and my position from him. "(Ahmad bin Syu ' Nasâ`î disgrace al-Sunan al-Nasâ`î al-Kubra, Beirut: Dar al-Kutub al-'Imiyah, cet. I, 1991, Volume 5, p. 307, hadith no. 8951) 4. Always alert if the wife need bantuanPada when many husbands are reluctant to simply help her because they can lower the reputation and dignity, the Prophet. Precisely never too late to help the wife. 'Â`isyah never asked about what the Prophet. in his home? He replied, "He always serve (help) his wife." 5. Remains to be polite despite being marahPada nowadays many husbands who started light hand against their wives and there was domestic violence. at the time of his wife's husband often make the mistake of feeling emotions, we find the Prophet remained wise, gentle, and polite in treating his wife during a cross-opinion or disagreement between him and them. When his anger rather high, then go away from his wife for a time to be chosen. Never he slapped none of istrinya.Bahkan when Prophet intend to divorce one of his wives, we find he remained polite, gentle and loving. Sawda bint Zam'ah old, not pretty, and plump, feel that the quota of the heart of the Prophet only pity, not love. Prophet was then thought to divorce Sauda as well in order to free him from a state that is considered onerous burdens and heart. Prophet patiently waiting attitude and answers Sauda on his intention to menceraikannya.Kesantunan, patience and self keterkendalian Prophet. maintained, even when the toughest test hit and shook his household, when there is what is called hadith al-ifk (false news), the Prophet's wife cornering charges do 'cheating' (Aisha with Safwan) The attitude of the Prophet when it really is exemplary for every Muslim. When Hadith al-ifk scattered, with a typical softness and never fade, the Prophet spoke to 'Â`isyah: "Amma ba'd. O 'Â`isyah, has actually reached me about you so-and-so. If you are free (not do), then God will set you free, and if you ever commit sin, ask forgiveness of Allah and tobatlah Him. "Until Allah revealed the news via surahAn Nuur paragraph 11, which makes calm and happy heart of the Prophet, 'Aisha and Muslims semuanya.Bagaimana may Allah curse not the wives who do not want to serve her husband well, if the husband has the property that all that well against their wives. Starting from now the husband must learn to treat his wife well, as has been done the prophet against the wife. If the husband has been doing these things even his wife would certainly be to be nice and sweet to their husbands. Hopefully this article will inspire readers and God always gives the blessing in the household of the believers to keep it intact and harmonious.
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