HOME of WISDOM KNOWLEDGE TRUE STORY BEAUTY PRODUCTS HEALTH FOOD KECANTIKANHikmah, knowledge 20 March 2015 34,473 viewsIt Turns Out This Supposed Husband Treats His Wife, That The BlessingNowadays a lot of husbands who demanded his wife to always be able to meet the needs of biology. And often from those who convey a Hadith stating that Allah and the Messenger will be cursed to the wife rejected the request of her husband, indeed it is true. But nowadays many husbands who had forgotten or mimic the Messenger melalaiakan in treating their wives, this is an important point which will be the discussion even asked his wife. Is she some how made by the Prophet in his wife's nenperlakukan: 1. Can soothe the feelings of a husband istriBanyak of today who don't understand how to soothe the hearts of a wife. Not least the husband sees his wife crying and emotions will be instantly rebuked him, not calm her down so stop crying but instead menggertaknya. But the Messenger has a gentle way in calming the wife's heart.One day, he came to Safiyya Bint Huyayy. He found Safiya was crying. To him he asks, "what makes you cry?" Safiya replied, "Hafsa said that I was the son of Jews."He said, "tell him, my husband, my father Muhammad Hârûn Mûsâ, and my uncle!" (Read, among others, Muhammad ibn Ahmad al-Qurthubî, al-Tafsîr Qurthubî, Cairo: Dâr al-Sya'b, cet. II, 1372 H, 16, of things. 326.) Looks at how the Prophet solved the problem with simple words but the meaning within. Feel the psychic effects of the wife who also are his feelings, certainly makes sense of compassion to the husband is getting in. Try tirulah either way it against your wife. 2. Consulted before taking the decision, together with the glorious istriRasulullah never felt objections heard and take the opinion of his wife. This is seen when he asked for opinions in the Treaty of Hudaybiyah Obson. At that time he told him to cut his hair and slaughtering, but they don't want to do it.See the response of the companions of the Prophet King, entered the tent Obson. So he told Obson what he received from his friend, Obson directly asking an intelligent opinion.He said: "go forth, o Messenger of Allaah, then thou shave and cut sacrificial animals!" He came out of the tent, shaved and cut his sacrifice. Saw it, all of a sudden the companions rise up; they received a shave and cut sacrificial animals; 3. Patiently she requests that comply with the manjaSekarang can be seen many husbands who are not direct emotional and impetuous when wives are looking to bermanjaan with her husband. Because women will feel loved when she wants to bermanjaan with her husband and then be followed by the husband.The Prophet. is a husband who highly exalted position of the wife and very respectful of them, so the Messenger always eagerly obey the request of his wife. ' Â'isyah told me about this: a group of people entered the mosque and Habasyah play in it. When the Prophet Muhammad. said to me, ' o Humayrâ ', are you happy to see them? " I replied, "Yes." Then he stood at the door of the House.I approached him. Hem of my Chin on his shoulder and kusandarkan my face into his cheek. Among those greeting (Habasyah people) at that time, ' Abû al-Qâsim (Messenger) good people. ' Then the Prophet said, "enough."I said, "o Messenger of Allah, do not hurry." He stood again for me. Then he said, "enough." I said, "don't hurry, o Messenger of Allaah." Not seen them play that I like, but I want these women know the position of the Prophet to me and kedudukanku from him. " (Ahmad Ibn Shuayb al-Nasâ'î, Sunan al-Nasâ'î al-Kubrâ, Beirut: Dâr al-Qutb al-' Imiyah, cet. I, 1991, Chapter 5, page. 307, hadeeth No. 8951) 4. Always on standby if the wife needs bantuanPada as many husbands are reluctant simply to help his wife due to its perceived reputation and can lower self esteem, the Prophet. It is never too late to help his wife. ' Â'isyah was asked about what the Prophet. in his house? He replied, "He's always serve (help) his wife."5. Keep being polite while being marahPada this present moment many husbands began to lightly hand against their wives and domestic violence. at the time she made a mistake not infrequently a husband feel emotions, we find the Prophet remains wise, gentle, and polite in treating the wife in the event of cross-opinion or disagreement between him and them. When his anger is somewhat high, then go away from his wife for a while became the choice. He had never slapped one of his wife.Even when the Prophet intended mencerai one of his wife, we find he remains polite, gentle and loving. Sawdah Bint Zam'ah that are old, not beautiful, fat body, and feel that the jatahnya from the heart of the Messenger just pity, not love. The Messenger was then thinking of divorcing Sawdah is fine to free him from a State considered to be aggravating his heart and bog it down. Patiently waiting attitude and answers Messenger Sawdah over his intention to divorce her.Politeness, patience and self-keterkendalian the Prophet. maintained, even when the test of the severest blows and shook his household at the time of the so called hâdits al-ifk (News lie), the wife of the Messenger of cornering the allegations do ' screwing ' (Aisha with Shafwan) attitude of Prophets at that time was indeed a role model for every Muslim. When hâdits al-ifk is spread out, with his gentleness and never wear off, the Prophet spoke to ' Â'isyah: "Amma ba'd. O ' Â'isyah, indeed to me to you, ' so and so. If you are free (don't do it), Allah will let you free, and if you never sinned then seek forgiveness to God and tobatlah to him. "Until at last God dropped the news through the surahAn Nuur paragraph 11, which makes a calm and joyful heart the Prophet, ' Âisyah and all Muslims.How can God Almighty not cursed the wife who would not serve her husband with good, if the husband has such good properties against their wives. Starting from now the husband should learn to treat his wife well, as it has done against the wife of the Prophet. If the husband has already done the things she was sure would rather be nice and sweet to their husbands. Hopefully this article can inspire its readers and God Almighty always give blessings in the household of the believers to always intact and harmonious.
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