2. What is the difference and Courting Ta'aruf?
in courtship, to know and knowing certain things prospective spouses do in a way that does not meet the criteria for an introduction. Like a man who wanted to buy a second motor, but do not perform the inspection, he's just holding or stroking the motor without ever knowing of his condition. In fact, she did not turn on the machine or open the hood of the car. How could he get to know the weaknesses and strengths of the motor it is.
Whereas taaruf is like a motor mechanic who experts examined the engine, brake system, steering system, lights and electric system, wheels and so on. When it turned out perfect, then he bargained. When doing taaruf, someone is either the man or woman has the right to ask that detail, such as about diseases, bad habits and good, qualities and more. Both parties must be honest in communicating it. Because when a dishonest, could be fatal later. However, technically, to do some checking, prospective buyers should never to bring off the motor itself.
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